Sunshine Billingual The Blog
    Top Picks
    Infant

    10 Tips for Enjoying Your Baby’s First Halloween

    Toddler Care

    Best Snack Cups

    Infant

    7 Tips and Must-Haves to Get Kids Out the Door On Time

    Important Pages:
    • MainHome
    • Blog
    • Programs/Tuition
    • Our Team
    • Himama app
    • Gallery
    • Contact Us
    • Privacy Policy
    • Terms & Conditions
    Facebook X (Twitter) Instagram Pinterest
    Sunshine Billingual The Blog
    • MainHome
    • Programs/Tuition
    • Our Team
    • Himama app
    • Gallery
    • Contact Us
    • Infant

      20 Common Baby Myths Parents Still Believe

      37 Kid-Friendly Halloween Movies for Families

      Kids Music (That Doesn't Suck)

      Managing Schedules on Halloween Night (Naps & Bedtime Tips)

      Build a Maternity Wardrobe (without blowing your budget)

    • Child Care

      The Role of Software in Boosting Parent Satisfaction

      5 Signs Your Center Needs Curriculum Management Software

      A Day in the Life with LineLeader’s All-in-One Platform

      Strong Parent-Childcare Relationships: Why Communication Matters

      Creative Childcare Hunter Streets Role In Early Learning Services.

    • Toddler Care

      Pumpkin Baked Oatmeal – Yummy Toddler Food

      Fresh Apple Pancakes – Yummy Toddler Food

      Apple Oatmeal Bars – Yummy Toddler Food

      Favorite Carrot Pasta Sauce – Yummy Toddler Food

      Pumpkin Bars with Cream Cheese Frosting

    • Preschool

      Updates to Horizon’s Preschool Programs

      Ohio DCY Leadership Pay a Visit to Horizon

      4 Ways To Make Preschool Dropoff Easier

      How Do Preschoolers Learn Best?

      Why Are Science Experiments Important for Preschoolers?

    • Learning

      Week of the Young Child in 2024: Activities, Themes + Ideas

      Keys to Building a Strong Workforce in Your Childcare Business

      How Childcare Software Makes a Difference: According to Real Educators

      LineLeader’s Passion for Education Meets Tech Innovation in their Leading Childcare Software

      5 Signs It’s Time for a User-Friendly CRM System

    • Skill

      When Should I Start To Give My Child an Allowance?

      New Study Finds Not All Preschool Programs Are Equal

      The Amazing Ways Preschool Expands Children’s Brains

      Happy Classrooms Lead to Healthy Communities

      Why Preschool Is Vital to Academic Success

    • Activities

      Fostering a Love of the Outdoors in kids

      Immunity Booster Foods for Kids this monsoon

      Indoor games & activities for kids in monsoons

      Tummy Time Must know tips for Infants

      Top 5 Indoor Games for Your Toddler

    • Parenting

      [Press] LineLeader by ChildcareCRM Is Shortlisted for 12 Cloud Awards

      Parent Engagement Software That Boosts Enrollment & Retention

      Why a Childcare Booking System Is Key to Enrollment Success

      The Best Childcare CRM for Enrollment in 2025

      Build a System That Converts

    • Leadership

      Best Childcare Attendance Software for Your Center

      How 100+ Years of Education Experience Shapes LineLeader’s Service Commitment

      5 Insights Every Multi-Site Owner Can Apply

      Developmentally Appropriate Practice (DAP) Examples

      5 Data-Backed Ways to Win Parent Trust

    • Features

      Teaching Children Responsibility | AMC October Value

      Horizon Unveils New Lakewood Location

      🌟 Fun and Positive Ways to Teach Kids Rules at Home

      🌟 Why Rules Matter: Building Safety and Kindness at Home

      How To Build Strong Study Habits—With Support From Horizon & Local Libraries

    Sunshine Billingual The Blog
    Home » I’m Not Sending My 3-Year-Old to Preschool…Yet. Here’s Why
    Infant

    I’m Not Sending My 3-Year-Old to Preschool…Yet. Here’s Why

    Share Facebook Twitter Pinterest WhatsApp
    Share
    Facebook Twitter Pinterest WhatsApp

    As a stay-at-home mom of two littles, I’m often asked when I plan to send my oldest to preschool. The truth is, I don’t know when — or if — I’ll send her. Don’t get me wrong. As a former teacher, I absolutely believe there are many benefits to enrolling children in a preschool program. As a full-time mom, I also know what’s best for my daughter. For right now — at least for right now — it’s being with me.

    At just about 3 years old, my daughter is seeing the world open up to lots of new possibilities. She suddenly qualifies for summer day camps, parents’ nights out at our local kids’ gym, and all sorts of drop-off programs. Because of this, preschool might seem like a given for many mothers of preschool-aged children. But we’re just not there yet. And that’s okay. Let me explain why.

    Why My 3-Year-Old Is Still Home With Me

    Here’s why I’m not quite yet sending my 3-year-old daughter to preschool:

    It Works for Our Family

    More than anything, my 3-year-old is still home with me because it works for us. Logistically speaking, preschool is pricey. Since I’m already home pouring into my children and family full-time, preschool isn’t a necessity for us. Not to mention, my daughter has unique dietary needs that require careful attention throughout the day. Being the one to care for (and feed) her gives us all peace of mind. Plus, we can designate the money not spent on a 3s classroom program toward other activities that fill my daughter’s cup. Having both of my children home with me right now just makes sense for our family. It’s a win-win.

    I Get to Curate Daily Experiences for My Daughter

    By being home rather than in a preschool classroom, my 3-year-old can join her younger brother and me for days filled with adventure and memory-making. On any given weekday morning, you might find us at the science museum, play cafe, zoo, or park — among many other favorite spots. We also keep busy with ballet classes, library storytime, and regular playdates. I love curating daily experiences for my kiddos, and I’m taking full advantage of the ability to do so while I can.

    My Daughter is Still Thriving Socially

    People often claim preschool is critical for socialization. While that might be the case for some children and families, I’m here to say that my daughter is at no disadvantage socially by staying home with me a bit longer. If anything, she’s exposed daily to a wonderful variety of people of all ages (and in many different settings).

    Apart from our typical kid-centric adventures, we do regular, old, everyday life together. Whether that consists of shopping at the grocery store, FaceTiming with grandparents, or tagging along for another family member’s doctor appointment, my preschooler gets no shortage of interaction with others. She’s also able to build a special bond with her baby brother day in and day out. She’s thriving socially!

    She Is Still Learning, Playing, and Growing

    I’m a firm believer that play is the work of the child. And even if it weren’t? I’m an educator by trade and find great joy in preparing learning activities for my children. My preschooler being home with me doesn’t mean she’s sitting around watching cartoons all day (although I’m not against using a bit of screen time as a tool for all of our sanity on occasion). She’s still learning, playing, and growing every single day. In keeping my 3-year-old home with me, I get to ensure she’s learning in a way that works best for her.

    The Days Are Long, but the Years Are Short — I Want To Savor Every Moment With My Children

    Staying home with my two tiny humans — including my 3-year-old, who is still very much my baby — allows me the precious opportunity to soak in every single fleeting moment with them while they’re still little. While I do sometimes wonder if I’m making the right call, my heart always reminds me that, yes, I absolutely am . . . at least for right now. We keep busy doing the important work of childhood, but we also make room for rest and relaxation as needed. And the option to do so — freely and unapologetically — is something I don’t take for granted.

    Partial side view of 3 year old daughter smiling at camera as her 26 year old mother holds her and expresses love and affection.

    My 3-Year-Old Won’t Be 3 Forever

    Choosing when to send a kiddo to preschool can be a highly personal decision. For some, there’s no other option. For others, it’s not an option. And for me? It’s simply the best-case scenario for my family — at least for now.

    My 3-year-old won’t be this little forever. Nor will she be for much longer. So, for now, I’m sending my 3-year-old to preschool. And that’s okay. Because you know what? We’re perfectly content continuing to spend our days together. And I’m clinging to these days.

    At least for right now.



    Source link

    Share. Facebook Twitter Pinterest WhatsApp
    Previous ArticleA CEO’s Take on Mitigating Risk for Childcare Enterprises
    Next Article How to Make Placemats from Kids Art

    Related Posts

    Infant

    20 Common Baby Myths Parents Still Believe

    Infant

    37 Kid-Friendly Halloween Movies for Families

    Infant

    Kids Music (That Doesn't Suck)

    Infant

    Managing Schedules on Halloween Night (Naps & Bedtime Tips)

    Infant

    Build a Maternity Wardrobe (without blowing your budget)

    Infant

    Fluffy 15-Minute Zucchini Pancakes for Baby & Toddler

    Infant

    Potty Training Regression: When Accidents Return

    Infant

    Why We Need to Think About Postpartum: Mental Health, PMADs & Support with Nancy Di Nuzzo – Podcast Ep 187

    Add A Comment

    Leave A Reply Cancel Reply

    Stay In Touch
    • Facebook
    • YouTube
    • TikTok
    • WhatsApp
    • Twitter
    • Instagram
    New Posts
    Infant

    Sleep Training According to Babywise

    Babywise sleep training. Babywise sleep method and how to sleep train according to Babywise Sleep…

    Easy & Fun Irish Flag Craft for Kids

    Get Target’s Gift Card Deal When You Stock Up On Diapers

    Eat: The “Eat” Part of Your Routine

    Willow Go vs Willow 3.0 [2 Amazing Breast Pumps for Different Lifestyles]

    Sunshine Childcare Center provides a safe, nurturing environment to give children a great start in life as well as a promising future

    CONTACT:

    214 Harrison Ave,
    Boston, MA, 02111

    Boston@sunshinebilingual.com

    617-426-3083

    Categories
    • Activities (17)
    • Child Care (169)
    • Features (323)
    • Infant (1,266)
    • Leadership (44)
    • Learning (67)
    • Parenting (39)
    • Preschool (21)
    • Skill (46)
    • Toddler Care (1,012)
    Most Popular
    Infant

    Buy Buy Baby Registry Review

    Toddler Care

    Favorite Raspberry Muffins – Yummy Toddler Food

    Toddler Care

    Easy Cilantro Chicken – Yummy Toddler Food

    Infant

    Raising Good Humans: Teaching Life Skills & Emotional Intelligence to Our Kids with Dr. Jenny Woo – Podcast Ep 135

    © 2025 Sunshine Billingual.
    • Blog
    • Privacy Policy
    • Terms & Conditions

    Type above and press Enter to search. Press Esc to cancel.